Wednesday, January 13, 2010

The Five Carseats in One Vehicle Dilemma

I have this little problem. With getting ready to have 5 children 6 and under, all of the kids will need to be in car seats when riding in the car. It seems like a simple thing- a 7 passenger van should fit 5 car seats, right?

Well, it is possible to get them to fit side-by-side in one row.


However, there isn't enough space in-between seats for a child to buckle up with a booster seat.

With the booster seat in (which requires a shoulder strap) , you can hardly reach the seat belt plug in at all. An adult can do it, but it takes A LOT of work. It's doable for a one time outing, but there is no way I could go through the stress of trying to get the seat belt through the tight space between seats every day.

Perhaps you're wondering:

Can't you just rearrange the seats in a different way to get them to fit?
I haven't found any other arrangement of our current car seats to work for fitting 5. The boosters HAVE to go on the sides because they require a shoulder strap. The other convertible seat we use for our 4th. child is even wider than the convertible seat in the photo, so it would not help at all for getting 3 seats in the back.

Why don't you buy a larger van and sell your old one?
That would be a great option, that is if we had enough cash to do it! However, we don't have enough money saved up for a new vehicle right now, nor will we take out a loan (think: Dave Ramsey).


Okay, what about putting the baby and younger two children in the back row using 3 convertible seats?
Do you know how difficult it is to get children buckled up in the backseat, especially when it's below freezing outside? It's enough just buckling up two babies in the middle seats (which is what we usually do). Trying to get all 3 little ones buckled in and out of the back seats, including an infant, while leaning over the boys in their booster seats in the middle does not sound like something I want to do every day.

What about those car seat things that you actually harness to your child and just use a regular seat belt with?
Those may work great, however I don't know enough about them to feel comfortable having my kids use them. I may change my mind, but for the moment I feel like an actual car seat would be an easier and safer option with our kids.

So now what are you going to do?
I'm considering purchasing a Sunshine Kids Radian Car Seat. It's supposed to work with fitting 3 of them in one row. However, I'd like to try just one. The harness fits children up to 80lbs, plus it's supposed to keep children safer than many of the other seats on the market. With the Radian, I could try to get it plus the two boosters to fit in the backseat. If that didn't work, I could then try the two convertible seats on the sides in the back for my girls, plus the Radian in the middle for my 5 year old son. I will also have to purchase a new car seat for the baby as my 2 and 3 year olds are using the only convertible seats that we currently own.

Think it will all work? I'm still not looking forward to shelling out the money the Radian car seat would cost, but it sounds like a better alternative to having to taking a loan out for a new vehicle.

By the way, if you've tried one of those car seat harness things with your kids, I'd love to hear what you thought of it.



14 comments:

  1. That is a dilemma. I had several in car seats at the same time but not as many as you! And buckling was a nightmare even then.

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  2. My first thought was buying the Radian carseats. I know someone who uses them and she's very happy with them. She's able to fit 3 kids in the backseat without a problem.

    Hope you're able to figure something out. We have 4 in carseats right now and getting everyone buckled in and out is never an easy process!

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  3. Oh my word - 5 car seats! Wow - the thought of strapping that many children in exhausts me - you are amazing!!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us! It's fascinating to this mommy of just 2...
    Courtney
    http://www.womenlivingwell-courtney.blogspot.com

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  4. This is a dilemma I never had...but wish I did! I love big families. You'll work it out and I agree...Dave Ramsey would be very unhappy with you if you took out a loan:-)

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  5. wow wow wow! All I can say is.....good luck!!

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  6. I have two radians and I like them a lot. This is the car seat a CPST advised me to buy. You can even use a radian for an infant, rear facing.
    Right now I am using the Radian with LATCH. But I was told it is not easy to attach with a seat belt, so you might need to have a CPST installed it professionally for you the first time, if you don't have LATCH on the rear seat. The radian also folds for storage and travel which is great !

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  7. That is crazy! Hope the Radian works out for you--that seems like the best solution. I really like your blog! I just stumbled on it from Chelle at From His Heart to Mine.

    Hope you day is very blessed!
    -Tori

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  8. Thanks so much for stopping by my blog. Your comments were so kind. Your dilemma brings back some memories for me. My 3 children were born between August of 1989 and March of 1991; that's right, 3 kids in 3 1/2 years. We had a 2-door Beretta and bucket seats in the front. To make matters worse,I sometimes broke the law (God forgives all) because my friend would come along with us and she had a daughter in between the ages of my oldest two. That's 4 kids in a small back seat designed for MAYBE 2 carseats... and that's a big maybe. Oh the days of no back windows that roll down and car sick children. I'm not advocating something like this by any means. I only wish they had had something like the Radian when mine were little. I hope it helps with your situation.

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  9. I have never even heard of Radian car seats. I have a friend with the problem so I'll email her the link.

    Thanks for the info! I hope it works out for ya!

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  10. oh girl, you do have a dilemma there! I remember worrying when I needed to use a car seat bed for my apnea daughter and a bigger car seat for my 18 month old. That was really nothing compared to what you have going. But at the same time I am excited for you to need 5 :)

    I hope you are feeling well!

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  11. Before you buy a Raidian try these booster seats from Walmart
    http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=10992662

    I have this same issue in my Windstar with carseats. We found these at Walmart and the children can actually buckle themselves! that and we had one just graduate to no booster! Whoot!

    Blessings!
    Vicki

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  12. I'm commenting super late on this, but I just wanted to let you know that we have a Radian and it is wonderful! We use a seatbelt to install it and it is very very easy. We actually got one for this very reason. Hopefully we will at some point have three babies in carseats (we have two now) and I'm anticipating not upgrading our car any time soon. Hope that helps!

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  13. I'm from BBC, you should post on the carseat board and ask there. I would definitely go with Radians, they're made for situations like this. They also last a long time rearfacing and forward facing and have an 8yr expiration. I would also switch to highback boosters for your 5y/o especially.

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